Shoulder bag, next to a blue plastic water cup, not tall, walk in the crowd, if do not speak, no one will connect him with "international students".
Before dinner, he prayed earnestly. "before and before dinner, but not particularly strict," he made a playful look.
Chen shunxin, an Indonesian student, came to China for a year and a half. As the name suggests, the parents of business hope everything goes well with him.
In Indonesia, working with a group of "evil", but as he is Chinese. "our local and Indonesia are two different circles, their impression of the Chinese is not good. And they together, always thought that is not the same!" When he said "different," he pointed to his chest.
To study in China is the meaning of shunxin's mother. It is said that it is China, and he has been muttering about it for a long time. "But, the United States, expensive." working not fluent in Chinese, but simply. Although irrelevantly sometimes "a", but among the students is quite severe. Interview before him, a friend said, Chen Shunxin is take the initiative to communicate with local students, and must be in Chinese. The interview process, hear any new words, he'll be the small voice say a few times.
He has a Chinese girlfriend. I asked him how he got to the girl. He stared at his big eyes and looked puzzled. What do you mean by chase? "After I had spent half a day explaining the meaning of" chasing ", he was just like you and your boyfriend. My girlfriend is a shy girl. Sometimes, I don't fit in with many of his overseas friends. "everyone has their own habits and I can understand them."
I asked, how do you discuss our Chinese girls? He stared for a moment and then said, "we're talking about girls in Pakistan"! Very cute.
Environment in small group always has a natural cohesion. "most of our students or play in their own circles. Said Indonesian." he's now in TCL mobile phone is one of his senior to buy him. "come over to Indonesia, has 13, the year before last year, 17, 21 this year." speaking of every Indonesian students, who are familiar with. A bit like "Chinatown" in the United States. Although and locals living in the same country, the same school, do not unite.
One and a half years of study life, has grown a lot for working. "the biggest change is that know how to respect other people's habits and character." because working is good at interpersonal communication, there are a lot of other countries' friends. "the people of each country, there are good and bad. Because of growing environment, and so on the different personality, each person's way of life is not the same, even joking way is different, I can understand these."
In Indonesia, is a Chinese. In China, it is Indonesian. Almost never belongs to the most. Deep inside a insecurity let him learn to protect themselves, to a great extent do not harm others. Well said, he has many friends in China, there are 20 so much. But is "light". To fraternize? One? Two? He shook his head.
Like those in suzhou. He often go to view before. He has been to many gardens in suzhou. About the future, he said, still far away. He'd like to read undergraduate course in China, and then go to a graduate student in the United States. "since I was young, I want to be a doctor, so I hope to learn!"
He just came back from church. He had a few small talk. Suddenly he liked the big boy who was born in the sunshine.
Chen shunxin, an Indonesian student, has not been part of the majority of students studying abroad.
双肩书包,旁边插了只蓝色塑料水杯,不高的个子,走在人群里,如果不开口说话,不会有人把他和”留学生”联系起来.吃饭前,他很认真的做了祈祷.”饭前和睡前都会做,但也不是特别严格”.说完,他做了个俏皮的表情.
陈顺心,印尼留学生,来中国一年半.顾名思义,做生意的父母希望他事事顺心.
在印尼时,顺心身边有一群”狐朋狗友”,但都和他一样,是华人.”我们和印尼当地人是两个不同的圈子,他们对中国人的印象并不好.和他们在一起时,总觉得,不一样!”说”不一样”时,他用力地指指胸口.
来中国留学,是顺心妈妈的意思.听说是中国,他在心里嘀咕了半天.”中文太难了!””但,美国,贵.”顺心的中文说不上流畅,但言简意赅.虽然有时会”答非所问”,但在留学生当中算相当厉害的. 采访他之前,朋友介绍说,陈顺心挺主动和本土学生交流的,而且一定用中文.采访过程中,听到什么新鲜的词儿,他马上会小声默念几遍.
顺心中文好,还有另外一个原因.他有一个中国女朋友.我问他,怎么追到人家女孩的.他瞪着两只大眼睛,一脸迷惑,”追?追是什么意思?”等我费了半天劲儿,解释清楚”追”的意思后,他竟然耍起赖来.”和你和你男朋友一样.”问急了,他干脆直喊:”不要啊,不要啊!”顺心的女朋友是个腼腆的女孩.有时,和他的很多留学生朋友在一起并不适应.”每个人都有自己的习惯,我能理解.”
顺心有时也挺”狡猾”.我问，你们留学生之间怎么讨论我们中国女生?他先楞了一会儿,马上说:”我们讨论巴基斯坦女生”!很可爱.
大环境里的小群体总有着天然的凝聚力.”我们大多数留学生还是在自己的圈里玩.说印尼语.”他现在用的tcl手机就是他的一个学姐给他买的.”我们印尼过来的,前年有13个,去年17个,今年21个.”说起每个印尼留学生,他都熟悉得很.有点像美国的”唐人街”.虽然和当地人生活在同一个国家,同一所学校,却并不相融.
一年半的留学生活,已经让顺心成长了不少.”最大的改变就是,懂得尊重别人的习惯和性格.”因为顺心比较善于人际交往,有很多其他国家留学生朋友.”每个国家的人,都有好有坏.因为生长环境,性格等的不同,每个人的生活方式是不一样的,甚至开玩笑的方式都是不一样,这些我都能理解了”.
在印尼,是中国人.在中国,是印尼人.顺心从来不属于大多数.内心深处的某种不安全感让他学会最大程度的保护自己,不伤害别人.顺心说,他在中国有很多朋友,有20个那么多.但都是”浅”的.深交的呢?一个?两个?他摇摇头,不语.
对于苏州,顺心很喜欢.他经常去逛观前.苏州的很多园林他都去过.关于未来,他说,还遥远.他想先在中国把本科读完,然后去美国读研究生.”我从小就想当医生,所以希望能学好!”
某周日,在文星广场遇见顺心.他刚从教堂做礼拜回来.寒暄了几句.突然很喜欢这个88年出生,阳光中透着羞涩的大男孩儿.祝福他!
印尼留学生陈顺心 一直不属于大多数由一起去留学
